11. Do what Mormon women do best – quilt! OK, that’s a joke. At least to me. I couldn’t quilt to save my life and have to feign illness to save myself from humiliation on quilting Enrichment Nights. But whatever “crafty” things you may know how to do, or whatever hobbies you’re interested in, do them. For me, a valance and a few poorly sewn flannel baby blankets constituted the totality of my sewing efforts, but I did throw myself into the decorating of my new children’s rooms, spent time learning to cook new things, and partook of the aforementioned purge-o-rama. I went on daily walks when the weather was good, practiced new pieces on my cello, taught myself how to use a couple of computer programs, and worked on my Creole. Hobbies, crafts, reading and learning can really help pass the time!

12. And last, and certainly most importantly, there is no better balm for the aching/waiting/yearning soul than can be found in the pages of the scriptures. Read them daily, and consider putting particularly helpful verses around the house where you can take comfort in them. The entire book of Psalms is chock full of reminders of the Lord’s love for us, assurances that He knows of our trials and sorrows, and promises that His will for us is that we be happy and follow Him.

Pray consistently, morning and night, and any time in between that you find yourself in need of strength and comfort. Ask for priesthood blessings when you need them. Read conference and Ensign talks, especially this one, to remind yourself that no matter what happens, your Heavenly Father loves you and wants what’s best for you.

No matter how you choose to pass the time, try to remember that this time is precious. Even though it seems so long when you’re in the middle of the wait, it will seem fleeting in hindsight. I know, I know – it doesn’t seem possible, but trust me. It will.

So start writing, go shopping, start reading, and get going on that nursery, will ya?! :)